Why Do We Do It?

I just received an email from a fan of my blog and she wanted me to write a segment on “why do we cheat” the answer may seem easy, but its not. There are different aspects on why a person cheats. Everyone knows the first reason why a person would cheat, and that reason would be because that person is not satisfied, please don’t get me wrong, I'm not saying the sex is not good. The sex you provide for your spouse may be the best they have ever had in years, but they will always hunger for more. You can never really quench the thirst for sex, its impossible. No matter how much you make them scream your name, or how sweaty you make that person, they will just always want more, especially guys.

 Guys think about sex more than woman. Some guys can’t even go a day without thinking about sex. And others think about sex more than they think about food. (you know who you are)

but let get back to the point. Other reasons why someone would cheat is because they wish to have their cake and eat it too. People, you must understand this is a one man one female world, meaning a man should only be with one female at a time, and vice versa. If a man is with a woman and wishes to lay with another woman he can, but he would have to simply tell the first woman that it’s over. Rather than cheating on your spouse you could simply let them know what your intentions are. And take it from there. Why sneak around when you could simply be “free” to have sex with whom ever you like, that way it’s less stressful of both parties. I know, I know, some people really want to stay with their spouse but yet they just wish to sleep around. GET IT THUGH YOUR THICK SKULLS, THAT’S… NOT… RIGHT. The same way you would not like your spouse to cheat on you, you should not cheat on your spouse.

Guys are more likely to cheat on their girls, and get very upset if they find out their girl was cheating on them. (you hypocrite)WAIT! STOP THE PRESSES, females are very sneaky, they are way better at cheating than guys, so it’s really hard to catch a female red handed, but that doesn’t mean just because you can get away with it its O.K. Some of you may say “if he/she doesn’t find out no one will get hurt” WRONG!!!!! Once you start to cheat, your emotions towards your spouse will change drastically, without you knowing. And sooner or later they will find out, or your conscious will eat you alive. bottom line don’t cheat on your spouse, if you love him/her like you claim you would not want to hurt him/her, and please don’t be a hypocrite you don’t want your spouse to cheat on you, so you shouldn’t cheat on them period.

                                                             “Ride The Wave Of Time”