How Long?

After many years of being with someone, a lot of couples no longer find their spouses attractive. Later on they might split up. No one wants to go through all that trouble just to split up after such a long time. But luckily you couple have what no other couples have…..ME. First let’s evaluate the problem. Your husband/wife no longer finds you attractive, why? Are you doing the things you did while you guys were dating? Most people think once someone has fallen deeply in love with them that they no longer have to try. Wrong!!, that is the time when you should try even harder than before, just to keep them feeling the same way they did before. I know it might be hard with you mindset stating that this person is already yours, so you no longer need to work hard, but try, try for her/him. If you really care about this person so much, than you would do your best to stay with them. Try even if it means being corny, or getting out your comfort zone.

now that your wife has had three of your wonderful children she might not look the same, try to comfort her and tell her she looks beautiful, and if you think she needs to slim down (even if big is beautiful) don’t just burst it out, be nice your jerk. Ladies try your best to look your best for your husband, I know that you just had his kids, and your not feeling as pretty as you did before, but if you try your best to get back in shape, even if you cant, try to make that baby fat work to your advantage. It’s ok to have on make up even if you’re not going out. Look your best because if you feel pretty than you are, and he will think the same way. Buying her gifs is a perfect way to show her how much you appreciate all that she has done and sacrificed for you and the family, it doesn’t have to be a car, but you could buy her something small like a couple of flowers from time to time, or maybe just something that she has had her eyes on for a while. Ladies you know that your husband is working very hard to put food on the table, when he comes home he would love to be greeted warmly, than take a nice shower, if possible try not to nag him as much with problems, like bills, because he already knows about the bills, that’s why he is working hard, just let him rest for a while. Give him a message, and tell him you’re thankful to have him. Guys don’t really care much for gifs but if you show your appreciation it will help a lot.

                                                         "Ride The Wave Of Time"

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