What Does R.E.S.P.E.C.T. Mean To You?

Many women these days complain about men not respecting them. Stating they should be treated like a queen, and not a whore, or just any girl. I agree 100%     . But not everyone feels the same way. For those uneducated males who were not raised to treat a woman properly, unfortunately they would not know how to go about treating a woman the way they should be treated. Its not hard for a guy to respect a woman, simple, don’t undermined her, when she say something try to consider it, make her feel wanted, be their for her in her time of need, and most important of all treat her the same way you want her to treat you.
Many guys will beat on a woman, and think of her as property rather than another person, honestly dude? That’s weak. Most men think if a woman is afraid than she will never leave, when in fact once she has gotten to the point where she fears for her life, the only thing in her head will be to escape. Everyone wants to be respected, loved, feel welcome. Personally I don’t see the joy in beating a woman, (not saying that I have ever lay hand on one) after you hit her she feels like crap, you feel sorry and angry at yourself, and everyone goes to bed thinking about what just happened.
. “Now, now, Mr. philosopher, your basically giving guys a bad name” oh sorry I didn’t mean to, I'm not saying that guys are all to blame, that would be very rude and bias on my side, you females are no saints. If you females truly want to be respected first you shouldn’t let an uneducated low life disrespect you, second and most important is you should respect yourself. “How do I go about respecting my self Mr. Philosopher?” first off take down all those provocative pictures of yourself on Facebook, Myspace, Myyearbook, Hi5 , and many more. Honestly if a guy sees you as a person that he can disrespect than he will take advantage of that all day. I can’t put all the blame on the guys and say you females have nothing to do with the problem. If I see your picture on Facebook and your half naked, or I can see you nipples, or whatever, the first thing that will pop to the top of my head is “ oh dam she looks easy”. Ok I understand that you want to take pictures of yourself in the nude, that’s fine with me, but keep those pictures to yourself, the whole world doesn’t need to see your cha cha, or your wofflefin.  Some jobs will actually look you up on Facebook, Myspace, and those entire website to see what kind of person you are. So what if your profile is on private, all it takes is one jerk to download your picture and make that picture un-private lol. Think lades, think before you act, think before you chose the guy that has a history of beating on his girls, saying that you can change him, think before you take nude pictures and post them up, think before you dress like a working girl on the corner of the street.
“Wait, wait one second Mr. Philosopher, but this is how I dress, just because I'm dressed like a whore doesn’t make me a whore”. Very true…..but just because you dress like that makes it really hard for us to tell the difference, so we just categorize you as one, sorry but the truth hurts a lot. What I'm basically saying is if you females truly want to be respected, than respect yourself, And if you still have those provocative pictures up on your website and you still don’t understand why you are getting so much rude and nasty comments from guys than you are just plain stupid, and you should stay in your corner and se how far you get.
                                                     ”Ride The Wave Of Time”



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